SAVANNAH, Ga. (WSAV) — Asking your partner intimate questions can deepen your emotional and physical connection as relationships constantly change.
These 20 romantic questions can also help you and your partner self-disclose your emotions and inner desires that aren’t communicated regularly.
- What aspect of our relationship makes you feel safe and secure?
- In what ways do you feel heard and understood by me?
- In what ways can I be a better partner to you?
- What’s one thing you’re scared to ask me but want to know?
- What are your biggest fears or insecurities in our relationship?
Low levels of emotional intimacy are linked to relationship dissatisfaction, with emotional connections creating deeper intimacy than sexual.
- How do you like to be complimented?
- How can we make our sex life better?
- How do you think we can have more fun in our lives?
- List your three biggest needs and how can I fulfill them?
- How many times have you been in love?
Open-ended questions are great ways to reconnect without spending a dime on dinner, dates or activities. This also helps couples to be fully present in conversation.
- Why do you love me? And when did you feel most loved by me?
- What is one thing you would like to change about yourself and why?
- What would you consider unforgivable and why?
- If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
- Are you happy with how much quality time we spend together?
In the fog of our busy lives, we can lose touch with where our partners are.
Asking intimate questions regularly helps to assess where you are in the relationship and what you may have to fix.
- How did you know you were in love?
- What are the biggest lessons you think we need to learn as a couple?
- When you’re upset, do you want me to talk to you or give you space?
- What would be the best thing about growing old with me?
- If you could solve one big problem in the world, what would it be?
